How to Survive Failure: Always Have a Plan
Boxers know that the outcome of a fight is determined before the actual fight. Your chances of winning are based on how much training you put in versus your competition. What’s more, it’s based on your mental attitude. If you’re scared of your opponent or if you’re too ‘in your own head’ then you will be more likely to lose. You’ll be more likely to fail.
The same goes for pretty much everything in life. Your chances of victory or failure are based on the way you prepare for the event and the outcome then just ‘plays itself out’.
And that’s why planning can help you to survive every situation.
How to be Ready for Failure
The problem is, that too many of us plan only for victory. We make plans based on the assumption that everything will go well and that we will have good fortune. This is a result of a generally positive attitude but it’s unfortunately not always the smartest move.
What’s smarter then is to make sure you’re also prepared for the various contingencies. What will you do if you lose your job? How will you cope if your partner leaves you? What will you do if the project you’ve been working on falls through?
This is an attitude that is always taken by businesses because they know it’s smart to plan for failure. They will have plans of action based on new releases going well but also just as many that are based on them going badly. Likewise, they will have plans for things go ‘just okay’.
By being ready for every possible outcome and contingency you will always be ready to deal with situations as they arise and nothing will catch you unawares and unprepared.
When making your plans, it can often be a good idea to think of them as a flow chart. Rather than a to-do list, a flow chart works better because it takes into account the fact that situations can change and are uncertain. Your plans should take the form of an ‘IF’ and ‘THEN’ approach.
To do this, you need to apply a little imagination in thinking of the things that could go wrong. You need to make contingencies not only for likely outcomes but also those that are perhaps less likely. As such, it can also help to look back at past failures and to assess them honestly.
By doing this you will have a plan for dealing with every possible scenario. You’ll survive any failure and you’ll be confident no matter what happens.